true strength

                                                       True  Strength

     We always make a mistake and then learn from it but some people are such fools they never learn from their past mistakes . I am going to narrate a small incident of my friend to make it more clear .

              A lady friend of mine  unfortunately lost her husband when she just touched  fifties . It was very unexpected for her . It was a very serious blow for because her children were still studying  and not settled .This shock left her high and dry . Her financial  condition was not very sound . There were many relatives and friends but as it happens with everybody , one by one all were gone . NO moral support no financial support  but anyhow she maneged  everything . I was sailently  watching everything . But this shook me very badly .

                    I realised  how weak a women  can  be  when things go wrong in life . But you have to be strong when you have no option . My friend's  condition unfolded  many facts of life  for me also .

Loosing a life partner is not a very easy situation to deal with . The fact is this that nobody  can anticipate anything in life . Most women postpone thinking about  their health ,money and looks . But i think  we should always  plan everything .......in case somehing goes wrong .

                     Allow me to come to the point of  true strength . One should pay alot of attention to health and  financial security . These are two  basic things which  can create  big problems. A  healthy  body can have  a healthy mind  and a healthy mind  can have a positive attitude towards  everyone .

 Being left alone perhaps the most haunting fear for any man or women .

                     To plan a solo future can be very traumatic  but take it as a only solution . Grief spares nobody .Each and every person has to face it at  any level of life .

                      So all you need is your inner strength  to come out  or to bounce back in life . It takes time

because emotions and memories  are not a writing on the wall that you go and wipe it . The true strength lies with in us but we have to find it .Then you really bacome strong in every respect .

                        This is also a good time to give to back to socaity  by doing a volunteering  service . It gives a feeling of self satisfaction  that i  am doing something  noble for others . After seeing their smiling faces  we get inner strength  .Never look back it makes  us  nostalgic . Be an help for those who are deserving . Thoughts are the language of universe .They represent our consciousness . we can be very happy and content .

                                  language has created the word " lonliness

                                to express the pain of being alone

                                  It has created the word "  solitude"

                                To express the glory of being alone

                                                                                           By paul