Tuesday 13 December 2011

R. U serious

                                                                R . U   serious

      Many times we tell ourselves  i m serious .....why we do this ? Either we don't believe  us  or we just try to be  serious about everything in life . somtimes we think  or believe that i m really  very serious but in fact we are not  . our moods changes very fast  if somebody  telling us a serious problem  it may be possible we just pretend i m seriously listening  whereas  we might not be listenting and thinking  something very funny  . we often  tell our friends come on what is your problem share it with me i m serious but we say for the sake of it . it is not fair because  why  we should  not play with other's emotions .
                     seriousness  .......is not a thing you carry with yourself  it depends on our mental state . it can be your basic nature  but eventhen  we can  be very happy at times .  so never say to anyone without giving a serious thought that yes i  am serious because  the person on the other end can take it to the wrong direction . 
                                 just to make it more clear here is a small incident which took place .  one day i was  talking to someone  on phone  that person asked me if i m serious i said yes of course i m serious
 but in between the conversation  i came to know  that we are not talking about the same topic so when i  tried  to change the subject  that person got annoyed .  i was also very disturbed  as  i took very lightly  . the word serious  has many dimentions  so think before using it .
                                   if you want to be blessedwith all the good things in life , learn to silently bless everyone with all the good things in life . now yes i can say  i am serious about it .