Being single
Living single is a accomplishment not just achievement . Honour and being single has many dimensions . Being single is another way of facing the world with a fresh and clear perception . All over again you have to start a new phase of life . Weakness in any area could disrupt living with respect and dignity . A society is nothing but a composite of individuals . In order to live with honour we need to define our living style . How we want to live ? Being single ......it gives meaning to your life , now what you want to do with your time . we can do whatever we could not do when we were busy or leading the life with your life partner . But it is not so simple and easy . we go through a lot of mental turmoil . It is not very easily accepted in our indian society , because from young age woman are protected by father , brother , husband and in latter years if you lost your partner your sons or daughters are supposed to look after you or they become your focal point in life . But as the time has changed the financial independent lady wants to lead her life in her own way .
I personally feel that everyone is single in her or his life wheather married or having a steady relationship , or live in .........at times you want some peacefull moments with you only . Having people around does not mean that you are not alone . It is a mental state , most peacefull and pure bliss . It is high time you meet yourself . Do some good work , educate children if one can efford , read some good stuff . It uplifts your moral and gives you inner strength . This state can be very powerfull if we use it in a creative way .It empowers you in the field of spirituality if you have a liking for that . It really gives a lot of satisfaction . A person feels complete , fulfilled which is the ultimate objective of any honourable person .
Mythologist Devdutt pattanaik wrote somewhere , Everyone survives in this world . Nature does not judge or discriminate only humans do .We creat insiders or outsiders . Family is natural relation so we are very attached to our respective families but if you are a single woman and want to do something different you have to be a strong person or have a clear vision about your objective . Always do the right thing even if no one is watching you . Develop a high standard of personal ethics . Meeting people who have clear conscience gives a feeling of comfort . When our value system is clear , decision - making becomes a lot easier even though they may not be easy decisions .
Emotionally , single person can be very strong because he or she has to deal with her or his loneliness or solitude . That requires mental thoughness. Mental toughness is the ability to see the long term gain . we always go for a short term gain it can be painful. once we have gained the mental toughness at same moment we gained the winning edge . Life is very beautiful it is the firmness of spirit that meets danger without fear . Fear is a cause of suffering when we are emotinally weak we dont want to come out of our comfort zone .
Can't we live with ourselves ? God never promised us an easy life . Life seems very easy when the going is good but we have to do our best when we feel our worst . It is sad and hurting but life goes like this wheather you take or leave it . Universal love .......adopt this way . There is an old law of nature you will get what you give others . There is a old saying that you will never get in trouble if you say ,'' i love you ' once a day . Think about it .
The feeling of satisfaction or shame comes from the purity of relationship . So in any relationship honesty should be maintained at any cost . Lonliness .......we all feel it many times in life but it is a battle and we have to fight it with love and courage . God is everywhere with us for giving us the right direction . Nature and time both are great teachers . we should learn from it . Bringing a smile on a sad face is a service to society ...........and a rent for living on this planet .
Living single is a accomplishment not just achievement . Honour and being single has many dimensions . Being single is another way of facing the world with a fresh and clear perception . All over again you have to start a new phase of life . Weakness in any area could disrupt living with respect and dignity . A society is nothing but a composite of individuals . In order to live with honour we need to define our living style . How we want to live ? Being single ......it gives meaning to your life , now what you want to do with your time . we can do whatever we could not do when we were busy or leading the life with your life partner . But it is not so simple and easy . we go through a lot of mental turmoil . It is not very easily accepted in our indian society , because from young age woman are protected by father , brother , husband and in latter years if you lost your partner your sons or daughters are supposed to look after you or they become your focal point in life . But as the time has changed the financial independent lady wants to lead her life in her own way .
I personally feel that everyone is single in her or his life wheather married or having a steady relationship , or live in .........at times you want some peacefull moments with you only . Having people around does not mean that you are not alone . It is a mental state , most peacefull and pure bliss . It is high time you meet yourself . Do some good work , educate children if one can efford , read some good stuff . It uplifts your moral and gives you inner strength . This state can be very powerfull if we use it in a creative way .It empowers you in the field of spirituality if you have a liking for that . It really gives a lot of satisfaction . A person feels complete , fulfilled which is the ultimate objective of any honourable person .
Mythologist Devdutt pattanaik wrote somewhere , Everyone survives in this world . Nature does not judge or discriminate only humans do .We creat insiders or outsiders . Family is natural relation so we are very attached to our respective families but if you are a single woman and want to do something different you have to be a strong person or have a clear vision about your objective . Always do the right thing even if no one is watching you . Develop a high standard of personal ethics . Meeting people who have clear conscience gives a feeling of comfort . When our value system is clear , decision - making becomes a lot easier even though they may not be easy decisions .
Emotionally , single person can be very strong because he or she has to deal with her or his loneliness or solitude . That requires mental thoughness. Mental toughness is the ability to see the long term gain . we always go for a short term gain it can be painful. once we have gained the mental toughness at same moment we gained the winning edge . Life is very beautiful it is the firmness of spirit that meets danger without fear . Fear is a cause of suffering when we are emotinally weak we dont want to come out of our comfort zone .
Can't we live with ourselves ? God never promised us an easy life . Life seems very easy when the going is good but we have to do our best when we feel our worst . It is sad and hurting but life goes like this wheather you take or leave it . Universal love .......adopt this way . There is an old law of nature you will get what you give others . There is a old saying that you will never get in trouble if you say ,'' i love you ' once a day . Think about it .
The feeling of satisfaction or shame comes from the purity of relationship . So in any relationship honesty should be maintained at any cost . Lonliness .......we all feel it many times in life but it is a battle and we have to fight it with love and courage . God is everywhere with us for giving us the right direction . Nature and time both are great teachers . we should learn from it . Bringing a smile on a sad face is a service to society ...........and a rent for living on this planet .
