value

                                                                value

 ''The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched . They must be felt with the heart .''    
                                 Helen Keller

   Same thing applies in the matter of values . It can't be touched but yes it can be reflected in your behaviour . Moral values are not a religion . Right values make a balance in the society .  Every individual has his or her set of moral values . The family, is first and formost the  teacher of a  child . Parents should make a point to teach right values to the child . Right parenting is need of the hour . Our education system is  niether helping nor promoting  values to the new generation . Gradually , loss of values creating a situation that is not very pleasing .

                                Values are not hereditary. True values are priceless . Right values can be learned through  good ,positive literature .Incourage children to read nice books . The media is somewhere responcible for not creating a high value system . If our values are not clear no doubt our perception will be effected . we will be able to decide what is wrong or what is right . Naturally the out come of this confused state of mind will influence our decisions . Hard working person knows the value of money .

                       Values should be taught to children so that life become meaningful to them .  It means a  well groomed society . Negative impact of personal values destroys everything of self and others . So whenever we think of values we should always be positive  . I am just astonished to see children who are grown uo and well settled but they expect parents should do everything for them . This is greed .no value for their hard earned money . Expectations are too mush . Where  this going to lead the new generation and when it will stop .Money can but only those things which money can buy but what about respect ,love ,values money can't buy . Little acts of kindness never go unnoticed . we need to set our priorities right.

             values --
                              value determine what we like or we don't like .
                      values  help to decide our choice or decisions .
                   value change with time ,change with circumstances .
                  change is law of nature . some person feel comfortable for some unconvinient .
             Money is important but values are of great importance . Lost    money           can be earned again but loss of values is difficult to gain . Before we blame others lets just evaluate who is to blame . Fixing a blame but what about dissolving a blame . we must decide to do something that our new generation doen't miss that is priceless , values .

                              '' no person was ever honored for what he recived .Honor has been the reward for what he gave ''
   
                

Solitude

                                                          Solitude


           The most beautiful word to describe the state of being in own's company . one longs for solitude . one can enjoy his or her own new ideas . creativity is at its best         form in solitude . Great poets like         Wordsworth and Alexgender Pope  used this word in in most attractive best possible way .
                              ''                 The solitary reaper

                 Behold her , single in the field
                                 yon solitary highland Lass,
                  Reaping and singing by herself
                                Stop here, or gently pass
                Alone she cuts and binds the grain
                                  And sings a melancholy strain .

        These beautiful and touching lines by Wordsworth .

        No one likes loniness or isolation . Appriciation of this situation can't be possible .

       Lonliness is distressing . Enjoyment is not there . Suffering is the other name of lonliness .
       Isolation is again being seperated from the world . The mere possibility of being in this state  is not very pleasing . Where as the solitude is full of your own refection  of happy moments of life . If we further go in full meaning of solitude it is a complete philosphy of life .
Lets break the word and try to find out the real meaning of this sinle word . It has volumes to say .
       Solace----comfort or consolation in the time of distressor sadness . calming effect in sorrow or misfortune .

    Objective ----to get peace and harmony .

   Lovable ------charming ,winning ,pleasing ,delightful , sweet , lovely ,cute . this single word has so many shades of feelings .

     Individuality------the qualitiy that distinguish one person from another person .

     Tolrance -----the ability ,willingness to bear anything , to face pleasure and pain at the same time . capacity to endure pain . Acceptence which is not our choice .

Unified  consciousness -----the higher level of consciousness . we attain this state when we permanently established in the field of pure consciousness . The perception becomes very clear .

Devotion -----it stands for total surrender ,great love ,loyality . Devotion can be anywhere ,religious ,friend ,family .

 Endurance -----ability to withstand  prolong  strain . solitude makes one happy . no place for pain and  discomfort is there .

                        This is how the word solitude has a soothing effect . Opinions can be different from person to person but some basic values never change . Some feelings are universal like
love, justice ,goodness , humanity , empathy ,commitment . these are the facts .

                                                       Ode to solitude

           Thus let me live , unseen , unknown
                          Thus unlamentedlet me dye ,
          steal from the world and not a stone ,
                        Tell where i lye .
                                                Alexander Pope

The turning point

                                                     The turning point


Living with grace on your terms is not so simple . The journey of life is is full of set backs and happy moments .Life is sweet and sour .

                                    life is queer with its twists and turns
                                  as every one of us sometimes learns ,
                                 And many a failure turns about
                                when he might have won had he stru ck it out
                              Don't give up though the pace seems slow
                               you may succeed with another blow .
                                                                         By a unknown poet

life - The state of being alive with all the difficulties , possibilities and harmonious moments . Life copletes its full circle no matter what comes in between the intervals . The life is divided in many phases of time . The childhood , very beautiful phase of life ,exceptions are there . Fortunate  people have it .   It is uoto you how tackle your problems and low period .

                               There is always positive and negative side in life . Persistance  .....in life brings succees never mind the time . Succeeses is subjective . It doen't mean everyone's acceptance .Oftentimes disappointment , depression becomes very dominent emotions ,the come out we are loosers . It can be in any respect thats the most difficult phase of life . Only the inner strength and will power to bounce back can  help you . That the time take a wise , strong decision it may be difficult or hurtful . The turning point .....of one's life , a important change , sudden loss anything comples you . This is called a time of judgement with a positive attitude .
                               Face all the adversity the result will be rewarding . success and happiness like twin sisters .The worst is over .Make a new set of friends who are encouraging , vibrant and with ahigh moral values . Emotional vaccume created by incidents , family , friends takes a lot of time and energy . But as a old saying ' time is a great healer . . very true .
                            There was a friend of mine she was very happy go lucky type of person , Very helping attitude but suddenly her life took a sharp turn . A personal tragedy shook her . she went in hibernation . All of a sudden she was on the cross road what to do how  to start life again .It was her turning point . She took reins of her life in her control . Perpetually she began a new phase of life with fresh vigour 
                               Hurdles are like a speed breaker not the end of the road . A new beginning is always there . New apportunities , new path , new perception like a new leaves . After a cold winter season spring comes with new leaves and flowers . Nature is a great teacher .
                     ''      O  land of thoughts O cradle of those who worshiped truth and venerated beauty
       we can reach you neither by ship nor by any vessel and least of all an horse back or by camel,
 you are neither to east nor to west to south nor north .
                    In the minds of man you are light and fire .you are the beating heart in my breast .''

                                                                                                     by Khalil Gibran

Listening

                                                        Listening


listening is a great art . Patience , empathy , compassion are the imporatant virtues for a good listener . A  talker is beautiful no doubt  but listener is more attactive . Listener pays respect to speaker and gives full attention to the speaker . The beauty  of listening  is immence . While listening
 attentively  we get more values and more knowledge . some times people only want to speak but if you will not listen others  will listen you . If you are impaient to speak ......just wait and listen carefully others . It will give you more time to think before you speak your mind . Talking can make you smart but listening will bring you respect . Perhaps by listening only your perception improve .
 So do it well listen , get more out of listening .

Attitude ...a problem?

                                                 Attitude ....a problem ?

 Attitude is not everything but it is the main thing that effects everything .''
                                                                                 by John Maxwell

            How much you understand about your attitude ? Is it really important ? attitude - means the way you behave or think .It can be both positive or negative ......it is a integral part ofour life . The positive attitude makes life simple ,better and healthy . Then why don't people adopt this ? because they never know which dierction they are taking . The outcome shows them wheather they are taking a wrong or right direction .The answer is that people don't really bother .
                                    The power of attitude is a gift we are born with  and if it is utilised in a proper way it can do wonders . It has immense power . The impact of positive attitude is far more rewarding than we anticipate . For example if a person is very skillful but with a negative attitude ,no one will like to work with him. where as the other person who is not that much qualified but have a positive attitude and full of humor . he can go to higher places.
                                     oftentimes people say you are having so many problems because of your attitude ......yes it is true . we complecate things so take it as a challange thrown at you by a well wisher .Negative attitude makes you unpopular , unsuccessful , unhappy and a distressed person .
  Try to change . it is difficult but  not               impossible . KNOW YOUR ATTITUDE , it will make a subtle change . first of all rate yourself as a person . look around make sure not to judge anyone .
never be rude , never underestimate anybody , don't overstimate yourself , make a plan for your work ,respect every individual . Healthy attitude helps everywhere in work place or achieving a goal .
It costs nothing but generates enomous energy .P osi itive attitude is like a true partner never leaves your side .Believing is not enough ,implement it strongly .
                                             Beside attitude ,there is another word that also plays a very important role iin our successful life that is APITUDE , it means natural ability or skill to do anything .it contributes a lot in building a healthy attitude .Attitude is a state of mind .our thoughts ,feelings , past experiences all come together and form attitude . Its a mental creation .
                            Jillian Michaels , a strength trainer and a life coach at N.B.C. series belives ,''you can change your life by changing your mind because the mind directs and drives everything a person does.''
                             So all we need for a healthy , happy and successful is just to lighten up a little , unstressed  state of mind . the ulimate goal of life is to get more and more happiness . Humor has a majic power .It improves health . it reduces the chances of falling ill frequently . Apositive and protective aura protects you from negativity . Many hospitals incorporating the ' humor programmes ' for the fast recovery .
                                 The bottom line is to keep positive attitude with a healthy aptitude you can make world a better place to live for the coming generation . You want to fly or fall it all depends on your attitude . Don't waste any more this valuable time .

                             '' The final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands ''
                                                                                              by Anne Frank

love

                                                         love

Love is a great enigma. it is like a acute fever that rises and falls in due course of time .love is a very delicate emotion and very soft feeling of any human being . people play games in the name of love .The innocent people get hurt in return . when we are in love or love someone very passionately we hardly see anything wrong , negative in that person . we get carried away . It is a natural flow of love that forbades us to even think about any selfish motive , there is a thin line between true love or just showing off your love .
                                 Oftentimes we decieve ourselves for the time being .Nothing last forever .Time changes ,person changes so naturally the outcome will be changed . change is call of nature . No one can  avoid it . It is just a passing phase of life . But yes if you are fortunate enough to get a really true life partner then enjoy it till it last .
                                  Loving so much with deep feelings can be very hurting. Though it is said real love means , no expectations . Human nature is like that . It can be a punishment ,resiprocation of feelings is bound to be there . Some persons could have a different thoughts about it . It is a debatable issue .Total rejection causes depression , distress .
                      Never stop loving .it is God's precious gift to us . Believe in it . we should not judge anyone's feelings ........after all there is judgement Day wait for that . There is no farewell tonight .
                    The upanishads declare'  you are what your deepest desire is .As is your desire,so is your intention. As is your intention ,so is your will.As is your will ,so is your deed. As is your deed ,so is your destiny .''

be tough

                                                               Be tough

    Everybody  ws fixing the blame ,.............nobody is fixing the problem .
                           We gained nothing but most important thing is that we lost nothing . our life will become a light for someone . choose the path of possibility thinking path , it has never let anybody down .We may quit the path , but the path keeps right on going to happiness ,health ,peace  and prosperity .
                        when the roads are tough the tough person rise to avoid the occasion . they win even though it is difficult but not impossible .It is law of life .Tough people rise to the top in tough times . Faith is the answer of all the inner strength , it gives power to fight all the problems and the feeling that i will win . There is no substitute for the deep faith .Just hold on your faith and you will be a winner .This i believe to follow it ......a strong mental positive attitude to survive .

                                  The main point is very clear that human race or nobody is free from problems .Adesire to think  about a problem - free life is amirage in the desert . we should accept the fact that god never promised a easy life .so be brave and tough , face the problems of life in a more effective way , it could have been worse .sometimes there is not a problembut a decision you have to make is painful ,lack of courage creats aproblem . It is a illusion there is a problem .......no i took a wrong perception . Try to be realistic ,the positive approch has always attracted the positive support from friends and family .
                                    Make a commitment to yourself that i will be happy and enthusiastic , will dedicate my happiness to others so they can learn a lesson in life and be happy ,no matter what the situation is .In fact the three D's play a very important role in our life , desire ,dedication and determination . the desire should be as powerful as a strong wave coming from deep sea bed. people ...who are winner in their life never stop believing in themselves. They have a strong sence of determination . Sometimes emotions make us weak but our dedication to fulfill our desire makes a very simple path . If  dreams are big ..........determination is a tool to make them come true .
                                  Don't be too proud to tell people you need help . Oftentimes we have to choose we want to be successful or to be proud then choose according to intelligence . The hardest words ' i need help ' but use it if other options are not there . Never let a problem become an excuse . Face all short- comings , faults and then find a way .Possibility is a very creative , productive and progressive word . If we analize the power of this single word .....things begin to shin. It creats the atmosphere of creativity and the energy it generates penitrates our mind .Ember takes the shape of flame .
                            A single idea can solve many problems .So always pray ........prayer has a magical power .

              ''     Lord , give me the guidence to know when to hold on and when to let go and the grace to make the right decision with dignity ''
                                                                           unknown