Egoic mind
forgiveness comes naturally , when you see no purpose other than a false sence of self or to keep the ego in place .
Every religion teaches--
Forgive your enemies
The past has no power to stop you from being present now .Only your grivances about past can do it . The extra baggage of old thoughts and emotions , we always carry with ourselves .Here we can relate it to our ego . Ego is the energy behind brain ...........or what !!!
The fact is we don't know what is all mystry , we cover up the real fact of life ,it is still a unsolved question for human race . Many scholars ,researches have different views but the most important ,relationship in your life is your relationship with your present life or with NOW. The ego ,could be defined simply in one way .........your relationship with present .We can see a person from surface level and make a image of that person .....he or she is very egoist person , but no we are wrong , every person has a ego ,if you are being positive you are humble and simple if you have a inflated ego you are negative but it proves that ego is a unformed energy which gives us power to think .
A number of spiritual teachings tell us to let go fear and desire but is it possible while living in this materialistic world ? trying to become a a good and better human being sounds like high minded thing to do yet you can not succeed in unless a shift of consciousness is there . you can not become good by trying it only , you have to bring out the goodness in you . It will emerge only if the basic goodness is there in you . Try to change the state of consciousness or improve the level of your consciousness .
The content of the ego varies from person to person but in every human being the same ego structure works . They live on seperation and identification . The egoic mind is completely conditioned by the past . Why ?? the reason is again our past . We suffer from acute prresure of past .
The word 'my ' is structured in our inner self . One of the most basic struture through which the ego comes into existence is identefication . we identify with everything this is 'my ' house ,my home . the identification is cause of attachment and attachment is cause of suffering .
Even in relationships , we use them as a means to self -enhancement , we try to find ourselves through them . we seek appriciation ,admiration , praise to make ourselves happy even for a short span because this happiness can not last long with us . This is a obsession for wanting more and more ,there is no end of it .The unchecked striving for more . It is a negative growth of self or ego .WE need to be alert and honest to find out , do we really deserve this love and admiration in a relationship with others ?
Some ego know what they want and pursue their aim with a strong will .Therefore wanting keeps the ego alive much more than having .Most ego have conflicting wants .Often they want money ,power ,name ,fame and they will do everything possible to fulfill their desire but at the same time they want peace ,harmoney ,love ,knowledge . So this is intence wanting , that has no specific object . this can be very disappointing sometimes .
Suddenly we loose something very expensive or we lost our spouse and found i am having nothing . In the beginning the anguish and intence fear is so high that we loose the confidence in ourselves or go in a state of self exile . The answer is simple .....this is a sudden collapse of ego , since ego is identification of form , when there is nothing to identify you realize the true identity as consciousness itself rather than what consciousness had identified with .
Here ego takes a new form , sometimes the new ego will be more rigid and impenetrable than the old one . Whenever tragic loss occurs you either resist or yield . Some people become bitter or deeply hurt and other become wise and loving .
Yielding --- you are open to life , you have accepted the fact
resistance ---going into shell of false ego , to withstand ,to strive against reality
Coincidence happen ,if you are closing all doors for others God will open new doors for you .The inner- stillness disolves with time .The ego surrenders with time ,love ,care . The ego takes another form of identification . The newness in life begins .The quest goes on.................
forgiveness comes naturally , when you see no purpose other than a false sence of self or to keep the ego in place .
Every religion teaches--
Forgive your enemies
The past has no power to stop you from being present now .Only your grivances about past can do it . The extra baggage of old thoughts and emotions , we always carry with ourselves .Here we can relate it to our ego . Ego is the energy behind brain ...........or what !!!
The fact is we don't know what is all mystry , we cover up the real fact of life ,it is still a unsolved question for human race . Many scholars ,researches have different views but the most important ,relationship in your life is your relationship with your present life or with NOW. The ego ,could be defined simply in one way .........your relationship with present .We can see a person from surface level and make a image of that person .....he or she is very egoist person , but no we are wrong , every person has a ego ,if you are being positive you are humble and simple if you have a inflated ego you are negative but it proves that ego is a unformed energy which gives us power to think .
A number of spiritual teachings tell us to let go fear and desire but is it possible while living in this materialistic world ? trying to become a a good and better human being sounds like high minded thing to do yet you can not succeed in unless a shift of consciousness is there . you can not become good by trying it only , you have to bring out the goodness in you . It will emerge only if the basic goodness is there in you . Try to change the state of consciousness or improve the level of your consciousness .
The content of the ego varies from person to person but in every human being the same ego structure works . They live on seperation and identification . The egoic mind is completely conditioned by the past . Why ?? the reason is again our past . We suffer from acute prresure of past .
The word 'my ' is structured in our inner self . One of the most basic struture through which the ego comes into existence is identefication . we identify with everything this is 'my ' house ,my home . the identification is cause of attachment and attachment is cause of suffering .
Even in relationships , we use them as a means to self -enhancement , we try to find ourselves through them . we seek appriciation ,admiration , praise to make ourselves happy even for a short span because this happiness can not last long with us . This is a obsession for wanting more and more ,there is no end of it .The unchecked striving for more . It is a negative growth of self or ego .WE need to be alert and honest to find out , do we really deserve this love and admiration in a relationship with others ?
Some ego know what they want and pursue their aim with a strong will .Therefore wanting keeps the ego alive much more than having .Most ego have conflicting wants .Often they want money ,power ,name ,fame and they will do everything possible to fulfill their desire but at the same time they want peace ,harmoney ,love ,knowledge . So this is intence wanting , that has no specific object . this can be very disappointing sometimes .
Suddenly we loose something very expensive or we lost our spouse and found i am having nothing . In the beginning the anguish and intence fear is so high that we loose the confidence in ourselves or go in a state of self exile . The answer is simple .....this is a sudden collapse of ego , since ego is identification of form , when there is nothing to identify you realize the true identity as consciousness itself rather than what consciousness had identified with .
Here ego takes a new form , sometimes the new ego will be more rigid and impenetrable than the old one . Whenever tragic loss occurs you either resist or yield . Some people become bitter or deeply hurt and other become wise and loving .
Yielding --- you are open to life , you have accepted the fact
resistance ---going into shell of false ego , to withstand ,to strive against reality
Coincidence happen ,if you are closing all doors for others God will open new doors for you .The inner- stillness disolves with time .The ego surrenders with time ,love ,care . The ego takes another form of identification . The newness in life begins .The quest goes on.................
